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Don’t Give Up on Us Baby!

Aug 02, 2009 / Job Seeker / Trackback

It would be a major mis­take to relin­quish your job search because it is a cer­tain sea­son or the econ­omy is not good and you don’t think there are any jobs out there.  Employ­ers have year round needs and oppor­tu­nity con­tin­ues to exist even in the most des­per­ate of times. Remem­ber all those for­tunes that were made dur­ing the Great Depres­sion?

If you are unem­ployed you can’t afford to “take a vaca­tion” from your job search. You must be relent­less. Rise each morn­ing as if you are going to work and then go to work on find­ing oppor­tu­nity that matches your skills and employ­ment goals.

Treat your job search as a full-time job!

When you find your­self becom­ing dis­cour­aged, remem­ber that when you are depressed and down on your­self it shows and it could impact your inter­view. Think of your job search for what it is… you are mar­ket­ing your skills and your­self as a prod­uct for prospec­tive employ­ers to lease. That’s right, an employer leases your time and tal­ent! Make your­self as mar­ketable as pos­si­ble, show­cas­ing your tal­ents. An employer must feel that if they do not hire you they will be los­ing out.

If you fear rejec­tion think about it this way.. In sales it can take 10 “no’s” to get a “yes”. You might get the yes the first or tenth time you ask for the sale, you can’t pre­dict. Each “no” you get brings you closer to the “yes”! To be effec­tive, you need to be stead­fast and approach each poten­tial cus­tomer with the same con­fi­dence and pre­sen­ta­tion — because that could be your sale. If you waiver, become doubt­ful, skip a step or lack thor­ough­ness you could jeop­ar­dize the sale.

A job search is no different!

The key to a suc­cess­ful job search is to remain stead­fast and remain con­sis­tent in your approach.

♦Treat each oppor­tu­nity as if it will be a a “yes” and know that each “no” will only bring you closer to your new employment.

♦Present your­self to each employ­ment oppor­tu­nity as if it were the only oppor­tu­nity. It will keep you sharp and make you work hard to win it.

♦Pre­pare for each oppor­tu­nity by research­ing each com­pany you apply to then tar­get your resume for that par­tic­u­lar job. It’s time con­sum­ing but it will stand out from the mass tem­plate sub­mis­sions employ­ers receive. Invest the same time and energy in your resume as you would if you were on the job and being paid to cre­ate an impor­tant pre­sen­ta­tion or report.

♦If you have any­thing less than a pro­fes­sional sound­ing email address cre­ate a new account such as firstname.lastname@host.com. Whim­si­cal, cutesy, goth, TMI, sex­ual in nature, etc., type email addresses are sim­ply inap­pro­pri­ate. After all, at least in my inbox the first thing I see, my first impres­sion of a can­di­date, is their email address.

The key is to main­tain a con­sis­tent pro­fes­sional image from A to Z

♦Keep a spread­sheet for (or jot in a note­book) the posi­tions you have applied to. Include the com­pany, con­tact, phone num­ber, email address and date submitted.

♦Fol­low up with a call or email a few days later to ask if you are being con­sid­ered a can­di­date. If the answer is no, ask for feed­back on why. Don’t be afraid to ask — It will help you under­stand employer and indus­try needs and help you refine and tar­get your search to match your skills. Thank the Recruiter for tak­ing the time to pro­vide you with valu­able feed­back if it’s not going to hap­pen for you this time around and ask to be con­sid­ered in the future for posi­tions that match your qual­i­fi­ca­tions. If a Recruiter has been par­tic­u­larly help­ful it can’t hurt to fol­low up with a brief thank you email or note.

♦Start answer­ing your phone in a pro­fes­sional way. “Hello, this is Sam” is a good greet­ing. Answer­ing with “Yeah, who is this?” is less than impres­sive to a poten­tial employer.

♦When a poten­tial employer calls under­stand that is the first step in the inter­view process. That call is a phone screen. Put a men­tal “suit” on and con­duct your­self pro­fes­sion­ally as if you were in a face-to-face interview.

♦If you are invited to inter­view in per­son ensure you arrive 10 min­utes early. If you are not famil­iar with the loca­tion do a dry run. The day of the inter­view is not the day to get lost. Use that 10 min­utes to psych your­self up for the inter­view and envi­sion the job offer.

♦Dress, speak and act like the posi­tion you aspire to. One step up from the posi­tion you are inter­view­ing for is a good guide­line. Put on your best cloth­ing and gram­mar (with­out gum in your mouth, of course), hold your head high and pre­tend you are in a movie and you are the lead char­ac­ter. Be self-conscious of your pos­ture and body lan­guage. Try really hard to have good eye contact.

♦Lis­ten care­fully to the interviewer’s instruc­tions and ques­tions. Focus and answer appro­pri­ately. Don’t devi­ate from the ques­tions and do not offer up per­sonal infor­ma­tion. Remem­ber it is a job inter­view and keep your com­ments to your skills, abil­i­ties and tal­ents in regard to the posi­tion you are inter­view­ing for. Arrive pre­pared to dis­cuss exam­ples of your per­for­mance, team­work and peo­ple skills at prior places of employment.

♦Let the inter­viewer know you have done your research. Ask ques­tions to show you are inter­ested and engaged. If you don’t know what to ask some pos­si­bil­i­ties are about the num­ber of employ­ees and/or loca­tions, what is a typ­i­cal day like for a per­son in the posi­tion, exam­ples of employee recog­ni­tion, expec­ta­tions for the fist 90 days, etc.

♦Thank the inter­viewer and offer a hand­shake. If you are still inter­ested in the com­pany at the end of the inter­view tell the inter­viewer. Some­thing like, “I am very inter­ested in this posi­tion, more so now after the inter­view and meet­ing you”. Ask for a busi­ness card and send a follow-up thank you email as soon as possible.

I look for­ward to your feed­back on this blog post. Let me know if it is help­ful to you. I would love to know what top­ics relat­ing to employ­ment you would like me to blog about and be sure to tell me your suc­cess stories.

I want to hear your story!



  • What a beautiful song;

    Don`t give up on us baby
    Don`t make the wrong seem right
    The future isn`t just one night
    It`s written in the moonlight
    And painted on the stars
    We can`t change urs

    Don`t give up on us baby
    We`re still worth one more try
    I know it would have last one by
    Just for a rainy evening
    And maybe stars are few
    Don`t give up on us I know
    We can still come through
  • Alas Karla, I am over the hill! I am in genteel retirement and do not have to either interview or attend interviews any more. I however find this blog fascinating, and shall return and comment whenever I can contribute something intelligent.

    The single most important factor that I used to look for in a candidate during an interview is the fear of rejection factor. Good interviewers, among who, I consider myself to be one, will bring out the truth behind the person and decide rather than treat the feeling as a detriment. Good organizations will have systems and procedures to provide adequate training to such people, if selected to over come such feelings.
  • Ruth
    Hi Karla,

    Another interesting blog.

    I understand what you are saying about the email address but when I created my email address or wanted to create an email address of first name. last name it was already taken. So I settled on this one. Believe me when I was hiring at Borders the amount of unprofessional email address that I saw posted on the website was unbelievable. In some people's eyes, it is only a retail position but even so, the email address does give a first impression in a way and does reflect on the person.

    If a company doesn't post it's information and it is listed as confidential, how is one meant to follow up?

    Most of the things mentioned I have done. Such as stating that I am still interested in the job, asking for a business card and sending a follow up letter or email. I always, always research the company before going on an interview and thinking up intelligent questions to ask. Maybe two questions, no more than that!

    Thank you again for another great blog.
  • Ruth, you are very professional and so is your email. Firstname.lastname is just a guideline so we don't end up with sexyhothoochiemama@serveme.com :-)

    When companies post blindly the same goes for being able to use the name of the Recruiter or hiring Manager in the cover letter... you can't and of course, in that case it isn't expected.

    I can tell you are working very hard in your job search and you are not settling, you are looking for the right opportunity. Keep being consistently on top of your game. It's making you stronger.The employer that hires you is going to end up with a rock star!
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